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And...I promise more posts to come...we've had a busy, busy summer!
8/30/2011
7/07/2011
Everthing I Need...
and other random thoughts on grief.
3 months
Hard to swallow today.
Haven’t written in a while…
No words
Thoughts I’d rather keep secret…shame
Tired of the tears
…of questions to which I have no answers
Incomplete thoughts…mental blanks…no insight…so inadequate
GRIEF
Exhausted
Feeling lost
Missing her
Missing what should have/could have been
Where is my joy in the morning?
Missing her smiles, her blue eyes, her chubby thighs
Wanting to comb hair, place bows, pick out dresses
Constant reminders
Daily reminders here, there, and everywhere
Seeing the same dresses my Emilie was supposed to look so cute in on other babies
Why don’t I get the “happy ending too?”
Frustrated: trying to “suck in” my still swollen belly
Sick of my heart not surrendering to the truths I’m forced to keep telling myself
Feeling beaten up, wounded, bloodied…tired of the constant battle
Wishing my house was not so quiet
My Heart leaps, I Look around and past the hall to “her” room when I hear an infant’s cry only to realize my stupidity when I hear that it’s just coming from the tv commercial for NBC’s new show ‘Up All Night”
Hating the unknown…the triggers…wondering when I’ll get blind sighted with grief, her absence, tears pouring out – recalling only the brief memory of her. Did this really happen to me?
Awkward pause, lump in my throat, when I try to figure out what I should now call “her room” – it’s not just an office anymore. No, “computer room” or “boy’s game room” isn’t fitting either. I want it to be HER room. I want her to be here!
Wondering what the future holds
Trying not to feel defeated or slapped in the face while I reason with myself that His plans are perfect, it’s for my good…for the third time.
Grappling with the fact that His ways are not my ways…knowing my place (on my knees) before my Creator…not wanting to put Him in a place of submission to me and what I think He should do.
Wanting clarity
Wanting to see the big picture
Asking myself what I still need to learn…that I didn’t get the first 2 times.
Constant cycle:
Anger
Disappointment
More questions
Heart ACHE
Tears
Submission
More tears
Injustice of uncaring, irresponsible girls/women having babies
Why not me?
Reconciling the “knowing” and “feeling
Faith? Hope? Love? Really?
Yes,
Faith! Hope! Love! Really!
How will You use this hurt, Lord?
Will You redeem it? …soon? …Please!
How could You use me?
How will You use my husband, Trent & Drew, Noah, Joanna, and Emilie?
I want to SEE, I want to trust, but I feel like a failure.
Keep me tender toward Your Spirit, give me strength to persevere, and to be faithful when it’s REALLY hard.
Give me a heart and mind focused on eternal things.
I’m praying others SEE YOU through me, even though I struggle…even though I question.
Redeem it, Lord, the sadness, the pain, the tears, the questions, the dirt and the ashes,
ALL of it.
And since I TRUST You WILL…
Help me as I wait for Your time!
Everything I Need
3 months
Hard to swallow today.
Haven’t written in a while…
No words
Thoughts I’d rather keep secret…shame
Tired of the tears
…of questions to which I have no answers
Incomplete thoughts…mental blanks…no insight…so inadequate
GRIEF
Exhausted
Feeling lost
Missing her
Missing what should have/could have been
Where is my joy in the morning?
Missing her smiles, her blue eyes, her chubby thighs
Wanting to comb hair, place bows, pick out dresses
Constant reminders
Daily reminders here, there, and everywhere
Seeing the same dresses my Emilie was supposed to look so cute in on other babies
Why don’t I get the “happy ending too?”
Frustrated: trying to “suck in” my still swollen belly
Sick of my heart not surrendering to the truths I’m forced to keep telling myself
Feeling beaten up, wounded, bloodied…tired of the constant battle
Wishing my house was not so quiet
My Heart leaps, I Look around and past the hall to “her” room when I hear an infant’s cry only to realize my stupidity when I hear that it’s just coming from the tv commercial for NBC’s new show ‘Up All Night”
Hating the unknown…the triggers…wondering when I’ll get blind sighted with grief, her absence, tears pouring out – recalling only the brief memory of her. Did this really happen to me?
Awkward pause, lump in my throat, when I try to figure out what I should now call “her room” – it’s not just an office anymore. No, “computer room” or “boy’s game room” isn’t fitting either. I want it to be HER room. I want her to be here!
Wondering what the future holds
Trying not to feel defeated or slapped in the face while I reason with myself that His plans are perfect, it’s for my good…for the third time.
Grappling with the fact that His ways are not my ways…knowing my place (on my knees) before my Creator…not wanting to put Him in a place of submission to me and what I think He should do.
Wanting clarity
Wanting to see the big picture
Asking myself what I still need to learn…that I didn’t get the first 2 times.
Constant cycle:
Anger
Disappointment
More questions
Heart ACHE
Tears
Submission
More tears
Injustice of uncaring, irresponsible girls/women having babies
Why not me?
Reconciling the “knowing” and “feeling
Faith? Hope? Love? Really?
Yes,
Faith! Hope! Love! Really!
How will You use this hurt, Lord?
Will You redeem it? …soon? …Please!
How could You use me?
How will You use my husband, Trent & Drew, Noah, Joanna, and Emilie?
I want to SEE, I want to trust, but I feel like a failure.
Keep me tender toward Your Spirit, give me strength to persevere, and to be faithful when it’s REALLY hard.
Give me a heart and mind focused on eternal things.
I’m praying others SEE YOU through me, even though I struggle…even though I question.
Redeem it, Lord, the sadness, the pain, the tears, the questions, the dirt and the ashes,
ALL of it.
And since I TRUST You WILL…
Help me as I wait for Your time!
Everything I Need
6/28/2011
In case you didn't believe it...
Here is
proof
that we do indeed have a
clone trooper
living with us!
Best Quote of the Week!
As I was saying goodnight to the boys and tucking Trent in, he said "Mom, I love it when you tuck me in." I smiled and then he said, "Guess who's gonna miss you when they go to college!"
Love that kid :)...and SO glad college is a ways off yet!
So thankful for the time I've been given to raise these 2 wonderful boys!
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Love that kid :)...and SO glad college is a ways off yet!
So thankful for the time I've been given to raise these 2 wonderful boys!
6/10/2011
S-T-R-IIIIIIIIIII-K-E!
This little video is the last of the 3 stike outs Trent had IN A ROW this week. Dad had to pay up and stop at the gas station on the way home to get 'T' some sunflower seeds! I guess it was just enough of an incentive...Trent rose to the challenge and made it happen :) (or I guess some would say he was lucky) Whatever the case, it was fun to see!
5/25/2011
Feelin' Crafty
A few weeks ago I came across this post at Little Birdie Secrets. It looked like a quick and easy project for me to do for Teacher Appreciation Week. It was something to keep my hands busy while the boys were at school and ached to be caring for Emilie. It also gave me a good excuse to procrastinate on doing some housework. Here is what my finished bookmarks looked like.
Some of you may remember what I made at the end of last school year for Trent's teacher. If your looking for another idea, try this. The "crayon initial shadowbox" was a big hit, Trent's teacher hung it by her desk and likes to tell me about all the comments she receives on it. Do you have any favorite homemade teacher gifts?
5/24/2011
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